Just young kids having fun. This girl that you are so in love with right now? She is stringing you along. She is comfortable with her power and the rush of keeping you at bay while simultaneously keeping her bf out of the loop. Move on. There are people out there who can and WILL treat you better. (Another side note: not all girls are like her, and not all girls are like me. My guys are attracted to me and my actions, but the rules I live by keep them from getting hurt. This girl is enjoying the pain she is inflicting.) Find someone who puts you first. The usual rule with question tags is… positive sentence, negative tag. Negative sentence, positive tag, e.g They haven’t met you, have they? He is here, isn’t he? Actually , What I got to know that her new found bf is of higher caste, Financially secure , has a masters degree and relatively good looking. So, The issue is that She just signed a contract . She signed it thinking of Security and to Show her friends what She had achieved . It’s her trophy bf . Of course , they may get married . But, It would be her trophy Hubby then . So why are you acting tough, that’s the thing? If no one is picking on you, why are you trying to hold your grip? Its not like someone is bullying you or hurting your confidence by making fun of you, are stalking you . the only reason why anyone should act tough is when someone is trying to drag you down.